Maya dah 3 bulan. Ya Allah tak tahu nak habaq lagu mana betapa aku makin lega bila she's growing up. Might be because of Kembo dah beso dah 3 tahun, dah tahu semua sendiri. Jadi bila Maya ni ada, aku macam clueless.. Aku dan A boleh tanya each other "how were Kembo back then huh?".
Semua benda aku dan A kena google balik. Sampaikan warna taik pun aku cam clueless, warna kuning mustard ni okay ke tak hah? Hah gitu. Tapi Alhamdulillah. Aku dah makin dapat momentum maya. And she and me are happier now. She's easy to handle now. I almost know what she needs, what she wants.
Dan alhamdulillah, aku still lagi praktikkan apa yang aku buat kat Kembo dulu, which is routine. Ye doh. Terkacau sikit rutin dia, HABIS!!! We're damned! HHAHAHAHAHAHAHQ..
Tapi kadang ada lah jugak masa aku burn out. Aku cam ape ko nak ni???. But yeap. still learning. I am.. Every single day I'm learning new things.
Cuma maya ni aku ralat sikit sebab aku pinjam buai member aku, Eida. Kembo dulu manede buai bagai weh... Kembo dulu elok je letak atas riba dodoi tido. Tido lena plak tu.. Maya jangan harap. Atas riba dia lena lah. Letak je bawah ada lah 10 minit, terus uwakkkk balik..
Tapi aku fahamlah. Sebab dia ada abang dia yang memekak terpekik terlolong. kembo dulu manede sape. dorang jelah.. kalau tido ya jadi sunyilah rumah dah takkan aku dengan A plak nak berkaraoke, anak tido, kan?? Aku dan A pun barai time tu. Sebab first timer as parents.
Mula² tu aku nk deniedlah jugak yang maya ni high need baby. Sebab dia nak aku je. Dengan A kadang okay kadang tak. Tapi memandangkan dia memang high need baby end up aku suren. Aku tanya kat wasap sape ada buai.. Alhamdulillah ramai sangat yang bagi kata semangat, ada yang offer buai. Siap nak bagi terus lagi. Siap suggest beli kat sini here and there. Alhamdulillah sangat².
Aku nak buai ni sebab:
#1 abang dia nak main nak makan nak bercakap nak bergaduh takkan aku nak halang? Kembo ni dah cukup lah bila Maya tido, deme tahu. Kadang deme yang bila aku kelentung kelentang kat dapur: "ibu jangan bising maya tido".
#2 sebab aku nak buat album pengantin. Aku beranak dah tangguh. 3 bulan weh delay album pengantin. Sebab hujung² trimester sebelum Maya aku memang nak berjalan je. A layankan je aku. Dengan aku kesian Kembo tak ke mana².
#3 aku dah makin stress. Sebab aku takleh buat kerja lain. Nak kepit dia je.. lainlah aku ada 4 tangan. Bolehlah 2 tangan dukung, 2 tangan lagi buat kerja. Ni mana mahunya.. Aku jadi stress. Aku rimas. Semua benda aku takleh buat. Aku pahamlah baby ni memang depends on her mother tapi come on, takkan aku nak berak pun kena teran cepat² sebab dia dah melalak? Ko paham tak? Aku makan tak kunyah ya, aku telan je terus.
Jadinya aku ketepikan ego aku, aku ambik buai. Dan alhamdulillah it went well. Aku ada masa untuk diri aku (mandi, makan berak etc). Dan paling utama: AKU ADA MASA UNTUK ANAK SULUNG AKU; ADIL & ADIB.
Tu part paling aku legalah bila berbuai ni. Kembo makin paham bila ibu pegang Maya, Muhammad (bila aku refer to both of them) takleh kacau. Bila Maya dalam buai, ibu boleh layan main menconteng lukis sama². Dan anak² sulung aku makin happy, makin dengar cakap. Sebab ibu layan deme sama macam masa Maya takde lagi...
Aku tak sabar tunggu Maya pandai duduk merangkak. Aku boleh buat kerja rumah sambil dia mengikut aku ke mana aku pergi.. HahahahhahaHqhahahahhqhwhqh..
Hari ni, 21 Ogos 2023, genap Maya 3 bulan. Dan 3 bulan jugak breastfeed dia. Takde campur langsung. 😭😭😭😭 tak tau nak cakap macam mana puasnya aku...sebab Kembo dulu kalau tak cukup yang aku pam, topup je susu formula. Sampai 1 tahun aku susukan lepas tu susu aku makin drop. Dan aku dah penat nak tadah breast dekat dorang. Tu pun aku topup, kalau aku fully? Lagi hauk aku rasa.
Kiranya ni salah satu pencapaian terbesar aku, aku nawaitu nak susukan anak aku sepenuhnya. Lagi 3 bulan je lagi, lepas tu Maya dah start makan. Dah tak kesah sangat.
Aku buat jangka pendek punya achivement. Dulu aku expect bigger, when it was not suceed, aku down teruk. Berhari² aku menangis sebab tak dapat susukan Kembo guna badan aku. Yang kali ni, sebab memang nawaitu aku nak susukan Maya sepenuhnya, aku gali ilmu breastfeeding segali² nya. Sampaikan Maya latcthing betul tak betul, aku boleh rasa. Dulu aku main sua je. Tak tahu betul tak betul Kembo hisap.
Ni aku target nak sampai 4 bulan pulak Maya untuk aku susukan sepenuhnya... HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHQHQH OKAY, dahlah.. dah pukul 2 pagi (mak² pahamlah kenapa time² ni still tak tido, sebab time ni je dapat scroll hp). Aku takkan main hp depan Kembo, sebab aku nak hadap Kembo betul². Kejap je dorang dengan aku, tahun depan dah sekolah dah 4 tahun... Dah tinggal aku dengan maya je...
Hmmm..anak soleh ibu, Adil dan Adib dah makin bijak makin membesar . K lah, nak sambung sebak atas bantal plak.
Till then, XOXO..
Maya Azizah (21 Mei 2023)
Hi gais, mashaAllah. Alhamdulillah. I have three children now! Tak tau nak habaq betapa bersyukurnya aku bila dikurniakan tiga orang anak.
Betapa sayangnya Allah padaku bila Dia anugerahkanku anugerah terhebat: anak kembar lelaki dan seorang anak perempuan: Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib yang kini berusia 3 tahun (2023) dan Maya Azizah yang berusia 3 bulan (2023). MashaAllah
Well.. Life aku still macam ni, menetap di sekitar Selangor, seorang surirumah, mempunyai 3 orang anak, dan dah takde kucing. Hahahah Cause #1, I cant afford for cat's treatment and health, #2 I dont even a time for myself! Cemana nak bela kucing, nohh??
Chaos. Yes it is. But happy!. Penat, rutin yang sama every single day. Every single damn day. Tapi I'm happy, dan PUAS! Sebab aku yang besarkan anak-anak aku. Aku yang jaga didik depa. Aku yang bagi depa mandi, aku yang basuh berak depa. Aku yang suap depa makan. Dan suprisingly, I am not teaching them, tapi aku yang belajar. hari-hari aku belajar benda baru. Aku belajar macam-macam:
- how to control my emotions
- how to stay alert
- how to cook
- how to do laundry
- how to play with my child
- how to have a time for me, (and for my husband as well)
Semua tu aku yakin aku takkan dapat bila aku baru berkahwin dulu. Sebab masa tu my life is just with my husband and my cats. Tapi now, it changed to 360 degrees. But still, aku happy. Happy sangat. Dan paling penting, aku belajar urus kewangan. Anak dah tiga ni, banyak benda nak pakai. banyak benda nak didahulukan dulu. Dan paling kelakar sekarang, bukak shopee tengok mainan anak. Bukak TikTok, tengok baju anak-anak.. Walau sekadar tengok, aku seronok.. Kira cam window shopping lah gitu.....
Alhamdulillah, masa kembar dulu dah banyak pasang baju aku dan A beli untuk Kembo. Jadinya masa Maya ni, dah takyah pikiaq pasai baju dah. Semua lengkap. Dan rezeki anak ni, betullah. Ada je orang bagi dia baju. Baju dah pakai, baju baru. Siap semua cantik-cantik pulak tu. Dapatlah Maya pakai baju warna pink warna-warna perempuan. kalau tak, ko bedal jelah baju abang ko Maya. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
ni gambaq raya aidilfitri tahun ni, Maya dalam perut masa ni (8 bulan)
Anyways, aku taktau pasaipa aku update walau aku tau orang la ni takdak tengokblog dah. Tapimungkin ni dijadikan memories for whenever I felt I wanna see whats with me back then. So blog ni best jugaklah. Sebab aku kurang suka upload gambar hari-hari kat social media. Tahlah. its me lah. Orang lain ikut hampalah, life hampa. Hahahahahaahahah Just do whatever makes you happy.
Till then gais. Love as always.
Assalamualaikum guys. How are you guys doing? Its a good start for 2021, for me. My goal is remain the same: to have a productive life. But.... Still cannot fulfill it. hahahaha
Ok I dowana talk about this pandemic (it scares me). I think I still love blogging. Like come on, I've been blogging since I was 16. Its already 10 years ago. I cannot simply dump this feeling about blog. Eventhough I know not much of us still blog. Most of them turned into vlog. Like who wants to read at 2021? Duhh.. But its okay. I still love to type. hahahahaha
I am thinking of should I change my domain or not. I dont know. I wanna change it to blogeyja.com but its no longer exist. So, I thought about eyjaazman.com since its my official name currently. But, I dont feel like Im in that domain. I dont know. Perhaps cause Ive been with blogeyja for a very long time? So I dont feel like want to change it? I DONT KNOW! So I guess I just gonna let it be blogeyja.blogspot.com dulu kot? .......... Yeah. I stick to blogeyja.blogspot.com dulu....
Cause I dont see how many of you who would still read my blog. I mean if I change it to blogeyja dot com, it is still me. My blog. People can just search blog eyja and taddaaa it will appears. So yeah..
Ok, talk to you later. My twins are already calling me and I am hungry. Byebye.
16 Mac 2020. Yeap. Tarikh keramat yang terindah buat aku dan suami. Bila anak kembar kami selamat aku lahirkan pada 10.24 pagi. Serious, tak sangka. Sampai sekarang ni, kalau aku tenung muka laki aku, muka anak-anak aku... Aku still tak percaya aku dah ada anak. Kembar plak tuh! Masha Allah, Alhamdulillah!
Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib. Nama yang kami berdua pilih untuk anak kembar kami. Muhammad Adil: abang. Muhammad Adib: adik. Mulanya aku nak letak tiga patah perkataan untuk nama anak-anak aku. Tapi carik punya carik, bila gabungkan. Macam tak kena. Macam tu bukan nama dorang. Macam memang nama dorang Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib je. Lagipun, nama ayahnya dah tiga patah perkataan. Tu je dah jenuh dorang nak ngeja nanti. So kitorang decided untuk letak Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib je. Senang pun senang orang nak sebut, senang dorang jugak nanti nak ngeja nama dorang sendiri.
Aku pilih cara beranak secara Elective Czer. Doktor Kanaga, Doktor Amira, dan Doktor Shasi ada advised aku untuk try normal delivery, eventhough masa scan: kedudukan adik songsang (transverse). Adik still boleh pusing kepala ke bawah lepas abang dah keluar nanti. Walaupun abang kepala di bawah (cephalic), tapi aku tahu risiko kembar ni macam-macam boleh jadi. Dan suami aku tak nak aku try and error. Dia tak nak aku sakit atas bawah. So bila aku pikir-pikir, I chose Czer. Yeap. Aku sendiri pilih untuk anak-anak aku keluar 'ikut tingkap' (czer). Aku dah tak payah pikir dah, dah tak payah risau dah. Confirm-confirm dorang memang keluar satu tempat je. Instead of abang normal, tetiba adik within 30 minutes, tak nak berpusing pulak. Dah aku kena tolak emergency czer. Hah, ni yang tak nak ni. Bawah dah sakit, atas pun kena potong jugak. Dan aku buat keputusan yang tepat bila doktor dah keluarkan abang, adik still transverse. Tapi sebab dah czer so takde masalah dah untuk doktor tarik je adik keluar.
Alhamdulillah everything went well. Dan paling aku lega, laki aku sentiasa ada sebelum aku masuk bilik OT, dan semasa aku nak keluar bilik OT untuk ditolak ke wad. Part tu paling aku terharu. Tak pernah sekali pun dia tinggalkan aku (laki tidoq dalam kereta semata nak dekat dengan aku). Terima kasih, sayangku. :')
Tak percaya lagi sampai sekarang yang kitorang dah ada anak. Hahahahaha. Sampai sini je cerita aku. nanti ada rezeki panjang umur ada masa (dah tak larat nak duduk lama-lama, masih lagi dalam healing process) aku cerita lagi pasal kembar. Oh ye, aku tempekkan sikit gambar Adil dan Adib.
Till then,
Eyja.
Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib. Nama yang kami berdua pilih untuk anak kembar kami. Muhammad Adil: abang. Muhammad Adib: adik. Mulanya aku nak letak tiga patah perkataan untuk nama anak-anak aku. Tapi carik punya carik, bila gabungkan. Macam tak kena. Macam tu bukan nama dorang. Macam memang nama dorang Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib je. Lagipun, nama ayahnya dah tiga patah perkataan. Tu je dah jenuh dorang nak ngeja nanti. So kitorang decided untuk letak Muhammad Adil dan Muhammad Adib je. Senang pun senang orang nak sebut, senang dorang jugak nanti nak ngeja nama dorang sendiri.
Aku pilih cara beranak secara Elective Czer. Doktor Kanaga, Doktor Amira, dan Doktor Shasi ada advised aku untuk try normal delivery, eventhough masa scan: kedudukan adik songsang (transverse). Adik still boleh pusing kepala ke bawah lepas abang dah keluar nanti. Walaupun abang kepala di bawah (cephalic), tapi aku tahu risiko kembar ni macam-macam boleh jadi. Dan suami aku tak nak aku try and error. Dia tak nak aku sakit atas bawah. So bila aku pikir-pikir, I chose Czer. Yeap. Aku sendiri pilih untuk anak-anak aku keluar 'ikut tingkap' (czer). Aku dah tak payah pikir dah, dah tak payah risau dah. Confirm-confirm dorang memang keluar satu tempat je. Instead of abang normal, tetiba adik within 30 minutes, tak nak berpusing pulak. Dah aku kena tolak emergency czer. Hah, ni yang tak nak ni. Bawah dah sakit, atas pun kena potong jugak. Dan aku buat keputusan yang tepat bila doktor dah keluarkan abang, adik still transverse. Tapi sebab dah czer so takde masalah dah untuk doktor tarik je adik keluar.
Alhamdulillah everything went well. Dan paling aku lega, laki aku sentiasa ada sebelum aku masuk bilik OT, dan semasa aku nak keluar bilik OT untuk ditolak ke wad. Part tu paling aku terharu. Tak pernah sekali pun dia tinggalkan aku (laki tidoq dalam kereta semata nak dekat dengan aku). Terima kasih, sayangku. :')
Tak percaya lagi sampai sekarang yang kitorang dah ada anak. Hahahahaha. Sampai sini je cerita aku. nanti ada rezeki panjang umur ada masa (dah tak larat nak duduk lama-lama, masih lagi dalam healing process) aku cerita lagi pasal kembar. Oh ye, aku tempekkan sikit gambar Adil dan Adib.
Till then,
Eyja.
Wow gambaq ataih kontroversi betul! Kahkahkah. Lantak. Dah nama entry 'Apa Aku Buat Bila Tok Laki Pi Semayang'. So memandangkan hari ni bukan hari acah-acah feeling omputeh dan entri aku dok campuq sat omputeh sat melayu. kita santai-santai ja lah noh. Hari ni 28 Februari 2020, hari Jumaat (rindu tok laki, kaih balik lah abang oi) so dapatlah aku merembat hotspot handphone A dan main computer dia (selalu dia edit gambaq pengantin) so memang takdak chance aku lah nak main computer. So,
WHAT I DO WHEN MY HUSBAND IS NOT WITH ME?
Listening: I Surrender by Aina Abdul: She's a very good singer. Bukan macam certain yang setakat tahu menjerit reach high note je. She;s a good singer. Aku menyanyi jugak (DULULAH! Sekarang dah nak beranak ni takdenya tok laki aku bagi aku nyanyi kat public. kahkahkah) So aku tahulah jugak sikit-sikit cara nak judge seseorang tu memang bagilah lagu apa pun dia boleh bawak, dengan certain genre je dia boleh bawak yang lain haup. So Aina Abdul ni kau campaklah lagu apapun, insyaAllah dia ujenis orang yang boleh perform well.
Reading: Aku banyak membaca article mengenai pregnancy sekarang ni. Dan sekarang ni memang asyik membaca tentang Sign of Contractions (dah nak due date bersalin dah akak ni dik). Sebab ilmu memang takkan cukup dengan setakat bertanya pada nurse dan doktor sahaja, kita kena gali lagi ilmu. Supaya kita tahu apa yang berlaku dengan diri kita dan kandungan kita. badan hang kot, takkan hang tak risau, hang tak tau papa pun. Sat nigh papa jadi lagu mana? Hah, habaq. Banyakkan membaca. Minda tu dah tenat asyik facebook, twitter, instagram je. Membaca. Tak rugi membaca. membaca jambatan ilmu.
Thinking: Dan ka tok laki ceq nak siapkan album pengantin, nak jaga ceq nak beqanak lagi ni, tunaikan tanggungjawab dia kat makpak dia dan mak pak ceq. Nak jaga kucin-kucin lagi. Aku qisau jah orang tua tu tak dan nak siapkan album pengantin. hari-hari dok mikiaq, tak letih ka laki aku. Kesian tengok. Sebab sepanjang mengandung ni, tok laki saya memang tak bagi buat qeja apa dah. menjahit is NO, menyapu is NO, mengemas mendeko is NO, basuh bilik ayaq is NO. Pendek kata everything are NO. Akulah rimaih, dah besa buat qeja laa ni tak bulih tu tak bulih rimaih (kadang dia pergi shoot aku mengemas je, HAHAHAHA) Bukan apa, aku kesiankan dia. Penat. Moga Allah mudahkan setiap satu urusan suami aku. Moga Allah senantiasa lapangkan dada dia. Moga Allah limpah ruahkan lagi rezeki kami sekeluarga. Aaamiinnn
Hoping: I wish my delivery is going well. (serious memang risau sebab 1st pregnancy kan). Tak nak ada apa-komplikasi, dan suami aku dan siapkan album pengantin. Kesian pengantin-pengantin Lensa Manja. Tapi dorang sangat memahami. Serious. Bersyukur sangat-sangat dapat client yang dah jadi cam kawan dah sekarang. Jadi member kamcing. Tapi memang my first priority is my babies. Moga Allah mudahkan urusanku. Ammiinnn..
Feeling: NAK TIDOQ sebab aku dah meluangkan masa tidoq aku tadi dengan main blog. Hahaha Laki den pun dah balik dah ni hah ditogonyo den "aik main blog?" KUIKUIKUI.
Waiting: Orang pasang turbine avent pamenatang tah mai rumah kami. Alah, sat aku tunjuk gambaq lagi senang:-
Hah, menatang ni. Depa janji lepaih semayang depa mai. Uish, hangat ngat-ngat (oqang Kedah takata laguni nah). Betui menepati janji woo. Elok tok laki aku ada dan balik dalam 10 minit, depa mai dah. Baguih. Kami order kat company Melayu (#SupportBMF). Aku ambik gambaq sat depa dok pasang-pasang tu, kalau rajin aku update entry mengenai turbine avent ni (tatau betui ka dak namanya nanti aku tanya tok laki aku)
Wearing: baju tidoq yang hat klawaq menggelebeh tu. hahahaha. Dah duduk rumah, takleh buatpa. Takdak jumpak sapa, hang ingat aku qajin ka nak bersolek?
So, itulah sedikit sebanyak apa yang aku buat bila tok laki aku takdak untuk hari ni... Korang pulak? Apa korang buat untuk hari ni, atau mungkin boleh share kat aku weekend Sabtu Ahad ni hampa pi merayap jalan-jalan makan angin kat mana, aktiviti hampa buat padia.. Kan.... Till later...
Love,
Eyja.
Hello guys. What's up? So in this post, I would like to share my regrets about what I have been done for the 25 years of my life. And I do hope when I shared this, I will not going to repeat the same mistakes anymore.
#1 Caring too much about what others think
Indeed. I over-carried about what my friends (not so friends) talk about me while I supposed to didn't give any s*** about anything they said. Why on earth I need to be worried and think too much about what people might say about me, my life and everything that is related to me? I shouldn't care, or even think about it. Let them speak. They have their own opinions. So do I. I am not gonna be affected by them. Let them speak! When they tired, they'll stop. And they did. They stopped, So why am I so dumb by caring too much about what others think?
#2 Not showing the real feeling to the people I love
I was (not was; still am) a quite rough person. I didn't show my real feelings when I am happy or sad. I showed my real truest feeling when I am angry. Like I cursed (a lot!) and mumbling bout the things that I am mad about. But after that, I will straight away forget about anything I said. And sometimes it hurts my love ones feeling. I didn't realized with what I said and it is so annoying 'cause at that point, I am the one who will look bad. That was the time when I am angry but whenever I felt happy and I know that I have to show a lil bit of love and affection to the person I love, I didn't fully let it out. I didn't show the love that I felt for that person vividly. And that is other things that regret about.
#3 Not following my passion
I regret it when I was not following my passion. But I have to 'redha' with the path I chose that I make it till today. But yeah at some points, when I am alone. I will always think: (kenapalah aku pilih jalan ni?) (kenapalah aku tak buat itu/ini dulu?) (kalau tak.. mesti aku dah....) I am pretty sure that everyone have this thoughts. Well. Kita sama. Even now, I still termenung dan terpikiaq awatlah aku jadi lagu ni... Tapi tulah, nak buat cemana. Ni jalan aku pilih. Kita bukan pelakon yang jadi boneka Allah. Kita yang pilih jalan hidup kita. bukan sesiapa. Not even your own mother. You chose your own journey.
And last but not least for the things that I regret the most are:
#4 Tak redha dan tak ikhlas
Yeap. I live for 25 years. And I failed to became a redha and ikhlas hamba that I should be. That I supposed to be. Siapa aku nak tanya kerja Tuhan? Who the F I am to questioned what has Allah plan for you. Yes you might. You might have plan for this and that and this and stuffs. But remember, Allah's planning is the best. He knows what's good and bad for you. He knows pengakhiran kita. But still kita bukan boneka yang jadi pelakon Allah. Kita ada pilihan kita, dan kita kena redha. Kita kena ikhlas. If you ask me: I do. I do regret when I was not following my passion. I supposed to ambik master, jadi lecturer, duduk kat Kolumpo tapi end up? Habis degree, balik kampung ambik GiatMARA belajar menjahit. DAN, apa salahnya? Apa salahnya aku balik kampung, belajar menjahit? Takde salah! Sikit pun tak salah! So why should I regret for not following my passion? Allah dah atur cantik dah. Kat sini kita kena terima qada' dan qadar yang Allah dah tetapkan. Terima, redha, dan ikhlas. You will be happy and grateful.
So, those are the things that I regret. I hope. InsyaAllah (doakan aku). I hope. I hope. I hope. Aku tak buat lagi penyesalan yang aku buat sebelum ni. InsyaAllah aamiinnnn.
Love,
Eyja.
Bismillah. Assalamualaikum. Hello! Masha Allah. It took me forever to update this. It's already the end of the year: 2019 but hey... what's up? It's my first entry. LMFAO.
Well-well-well.. Short but not too short, I am a housewife now. Still menjahit, tapi my own baju. Might start to take an order, while I still can.. I guess??
And I realized now when I am who I am at this moment, I no longer felt like I want or I need to update my social medias, to let my friends know what I am doing. Is that normal? For who has marriage life? Or it is just me, who felt that way?
When I felt like I want to upload a photo or at least to make an insta-story or facebook-story, it just feel like I am wasting my time.. Seriously, is that normal, guys?
Well. I don't know.. At this moment, I get to update my entry beacuse of my husband is not around so I can use his PC. Hahaha. (love you, sayang, come back hurry!)..
So rather than start writing an entry, I edited the codes in my blog and turned Blog Eyja from white background to black background. Hahahahaha. Dan sekarang aku dah sakit pinggang sebab duduk terlalu lama kat kerusi!!! Padan muka. (I'll sleep till evening pasni)
And I didn't even cooked for myself. Lantak kau lapaq satgih Ja!! But I boiled corns at this morning so I believed that fruits gave me a lil bit of calories (I am not even sweating, so don't need too much calories for today)
And I am listening to Selena Gomez not quite new songs: Can't Get Enough right now. And wait, now it's Taylor Swift - 22. Yeap. At this moment, yes. It's Taylor Swift.
Well, above all are not the point. The point is, I just wanted to share my old and lame kenduri kahwin photos. Just to you know, (penuhkan entry) hahaha. So here we go.
So, this is A: the love of my life. My bestest friend I ever have. I wrote in my last entry before this that I had no best girlfriend. Guess what? I need a husband. And my life was completely complete! We have been married for a year and a half now, and we both loving and knowing each other every single day. (cliche but that happened in marriage). Yeah. That's a bit of my kenduri photos that I think this can be a new start for me to you know.. Be more open about my beautiful and amazing life. So that (takyah kau perasan sangat orang lain nak ambik tahu pasal life kau) Hahahaha
So last but not least. Don't judge a person who shares his/her life in facebook or instagram. Because we didn't how hard they've been through or how struggled they life just to be succeed or anything. Just be happy and like their post or if you don't like, just scroll down you freaking timeline or just unfollow them. Don't hurt others feeling. You will never know when is the time that you might scratch others feeling dan berdosa okay??? Buat orang sakit hati... Be happy or remain silent. That's better. (rasa cam ahli falsafah or ahli psikologi plak aku) Well.. Till then guys.
Love,
Eyja
P/S: Thank you so so so much to whoever read this entry (cause I know my blog hasn't been updated time-to-time). Thank you so so so so sooo much. <3
Well. I don't know.. At this moment, I get to update my entry beacuse of my husband is not around so I can use his PC. Hahaha. (love you, sayang, come back hurry!)..
So rather than start writing an entry, I edited the codes in my blog and turned Blog Eyja from white background to black background. Hahahahaha. Dan sekarang aku dah sakit pinggang sebab duduk terlalu lama kat kerusi!!! Padan muka. (I'll sleep till evening pasni)
And I didn't even cooked for myself. Lantak kau lapaq satgih Ja!! But I boiled corns at this morning so I believed that fruits gave me a lil bit of calories (I am not even sweating, so don't need too much calories for today)
And I am listening to Selena Gomez not quite new songs: Can't Get Enough right now. And wait, now it's Taylor Swift - 22. Yeap. At this moment, yes. It's Taylor Swift.
Well, above all are not the point. The point is, I just wanted to share my old and lame kenduri kahwin photos. Just to you know, (penuhkan entry) hahaha. So here we go.
Love,
Eyja
P/S: Thank you so so so much to whoever read this entry (cause I know my blog hasn't been updated time-to-time). Thank you so so so so sooo much. <3
- getting married
- moved to my husband's house at Perak.
- H & M were no longer mine (dad didn't allowed me to bring them)
- I adopted new cats: T & D (I cannot live without cats near me, daaa!!!)
- I am a tailor now (plus still an assistant photographer for my husband)
Errr, that was huge moments, aite? But nevermind.
So, since I didn't give a little shit about my blog, so the domain name was expired and I cannot use that name anymore, so I ll stick to blogeyja.blogspot.com for a while (or maybe forever???) because I have to priorities my money, and domain name is not included, so yeah...
Anyways, I will post more (I am scared to tell my husband that I blogged behind him). I think I am gonna type using a phone.. We will see bout that.
Oh, I might blog just about me, what I do what I say yada yada.. There is no collaboration with any company anymore, 'cause I know I cannot commit. So, apologise for whoever want me to review or advertise, I am truly sorry, because I have not so plenty time to cooperate. (I am sure that many other bloggers will review and advertise for you due to their pageviews)
So, that is it till now.
Talk to you later, bye :)
Oh, I might blog just about me, what I do what I say yada yada.. There is no collaboration with any company anymore, 'cause I know I cannot commit. So, apologise for whoever want me to review or advertise, I am truly sorry, because I have not so plenty time to cooperate. (I am sure that many other bloggers will review and advertise for you due to their pageviews)
So, that is it till now.
Talk to you later, bye :)
Hi fellas. So this night, I would love to sembang about things I've done to be much more happier with my kehidupan. 'Cause I can tell sometimes, we thought our lives are screwed, but eventually, it is just us who pikir, 'hidup aku tak fun bla bla bla'.
So heres the several things that I do to be happier in my own way.
#1. Do not think about what other people think about you.
Seriously dude, lantaklah apa orang nak cakap pasal awak. You, live your life. If they nasihat you or even kutuk or bash you, just ambik the positive parts. Don't even think of the negative sides that they told you. You know you. You know your worth, so buat apa kau sibuk pikir apa orang pikir pasal kau. Kau lantakkan je. Orang nasihat, dengar. Dan ambik pengajaran, tapi tak perlu sampai stress out with people yang bring you down. They do not deserve you, seriously. It is totally none of your business. Just live up your lovely happy life. And smile. 😊
#2. Masa akan merawat duka.
Sape je tak pernah kecewa? Atau dipatah remukkan hatinya? Atau dipijak lunyai maruahnya? Sape yang tak pernah? I bet everyone does. But time heals every single thing, guys. It is true that it takes time. Tapi ia akan terawat dengan sendirinya. You can cry. Cry hardly. Tapi jangan tunjuk kat orang yang kau lemah. Jangan update any sort of status kat social medias: facebook, twitter, etc yang you are sad, you are angry and stuff.. Trust me. Orang yang baca, orang yang stalk life kau. Sebenarnya lagi ramai yang suka kau jatuh. Lagi ramai yang tepuk tangan belakang badan. So, take as deeper as breath you wanna take. But please. Please. Please. Smile and move on. When you smile, you will heal your feeling a lil bit. So percaya dengan Allah, yang everything will be fine.
#3. Do not make a comparison between your life and others.
It leads to #1 and #2. Jangan bandingkan hidup kau dengan orang lain (aku selalu rasa ni). Kau hidup kau. Dia hidup dia. Cara kau dilahirkan pun berbeza, apatah lagi perjalanan hidup kau. Jangan ever fikir yang hidup kau lagi better daripada orang, atau jangan perasan hidup kau lagi worst daripada orang lain. Masing-masing ada hidup masing-masing. I always thought that my life was 'suwey', tapi aku lupa. Yang sebenarnya Allah letak kat sesuatu keadaan tu, sebab Dia Maha Mengetahui yang aku mampu pikul keadaan tu. Your life is already beautiful as it can be. Do not compare your life to others.
#4. Do not judge other people.
You dont know how much theyve been struggled before. You have absolutely no idea what their journey macam mana, so do not judge them. Let them be. Nasihat is good. But please do personally. Jangan jadi: kau takde pun whatsapp dia. Kau takde pun call dia atau jumpa dia, tup-tup kau update status kat facebook, yang kau tak suka dia kau rasa dia acah bagus and so on. Seriously, in my opinion, orang yang marahkan someone then update status on facebook or whatsoever socmed without contact the person first, are coward. Berani update sebab mintak backup daripada kawan alam maya, yang realitinya. Pengecut. So do not judge other people. Live your life like I mentioned at #1, #2, and #3.
#5. Stop thinking too much.
This I already explained at #1. So yeah. Do not think sampai takleh tidur atau sampai terbawak-bawak dalam tidur. You own your life. So stop worrying and thinking too much. Takesahlah kau tak tahu apa akan jadi lepas-lepas tu, just live your life happily and calmly. You will be just fine..
So... Thats how I not usually tapi try to make on my daily life to ensure that I have better life. Do you have any motivational ways to lift up your life? Mind if share it with my readers? 😊😍
Hi guys. It's already in the middle of 2018, but I didn't post anything yet. I have 24 hours a day just like you all, but I still cannot managed my time perfectly. I failed.. Again.. I guess. Nevermind.
Anyways, how are you guys doing? I hope it is fine. :) The reason why I write this is because, I got my laptop back. LMAO. But yeah, A took my laptop to susun album and do our photography stuff, 'cause I didn't do anything on my laptop, so yeah, he borrowed. So this puasa, he's not using my laptop due to kena meniaga bazaar for our duit kahwin (no lah, dia memang meniaga bazaar tiap Ramadhan :p). So he gave me my laptop back 'cause I'm the one yang akan susun all the gambar and stuffs (eventhough I belajar di GiatMARA untuk SKM 3, but still.. Work has to be done)
So yeah, that is the biggest reason why I didn't blog for a pretty long time. Oh God, I miss my blog. So much. I miss reading other bloggers's posts. I miss commenting on their blog posts. I miss edit my template in the 2 AM in the morning. I literally cried bila bukak blogger.com
I don't know what to membebel lagi, I just nak cakap that thing. And I just nak type something. I miss my blogger life. But I have to balance between my current life and my needy life. Because, everything have changed. I no longer in a position that I can write in blog without being worry about other things. Sekarang ni pun time I tengah type, I still pikirkan album pengantin, still pikirkan baju-baju yang perlu dijahit. Penat namatey, tapi this is a life that I chose. Luckily, I have a man who supports me on doing what I love to do. And the best part, A pun menjahit macam aku. So yeah, thank you God for giving me this man: A <3
So, talk to you soon or later, and whoever reading this, I hope you have a lovely life and dirahmati Allah dan jugak diberikan kesihatan yang baik. :)
Love, Eyja
While we’re all fans of beautifying the aesthetic of your room, we also happen to be big advocates of getting the most out of your bedroom. Smart hacks, simplifying things, and DIY storage ideas, are some of the things that are right up our alley.
So, if you’re scratching your head trying to figure out how to declutter your small bedroom, these clever tips will come in handy to help you rest easier.
Organise your wardrobe like an OCD perfectionist
Your clothes and belongings are probably eating up valuable space and cluttering your room if they’re laying around. Having a strict organisational method (and we really do mean strict) helps to keep things properly and orderly stored in your wardrobe and drawers.
Get rid of your old shabby clothes or clothes that you can’t fit anymore, hang your clothes in an orderly fashion (eg. clothes in one area, pants in another), to prevent yourself from ransacking the drawer searching for your underwear or socks.
Think out of the box...literally
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Don’t limit your storage space to just wardrobes and drawers, think of creative ways to store your items. For instance, a “floating” wall shelf is one smart way to amplify your storage without sacrificing too much space. Overhead shelves work great to store your books and display items.
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One more creative way to organise your items is to hack your bedroom door by adding rails, hooks, or even some velcro tapes. Use this to hang your outfit for the next day, or for easily accessible knickknacks.
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Relatively simple, yet incredibly effective. If you’re constantly scrambling to find your keys, or if you need to sort out tangling cables, your old legos can literally give you a hand to keep your cables organised.
Simply stick them to the side of your desk (or on the wall) with some Sugru and you have an awesome way of making your cables and wires accessible.
Platform/storage beds
Your bed is most probably the biggest culprit in eating up valuable space, and this is more notable when you have a small bedroom. So, one smart hack that you can maximise your storage space is to have platform beds or storage beds.
The secret to these beds are the multiple drawer compartments, whether if they are under or around the mattress. This extra storage slot enables you to store items like clothes, books, magazines, or your movie collection. You can even hide secret presents from your kids!
If you’re on a tight budget and if you’re the kind of person who likes to build things, one relatively uncostly way you could do is to hack several IKEA products. Check out our guide on building a platform bed using IKEA products.
Install a pegboard
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We’re big fans of pegboards, not only do they look great in your home, but they’re also excellent storage solutions. You can organise anything from artwork and bracelets, to bags and watches. The best thing about a pegboard is that the items are on display, so you don’t have to ransack the drawer just to search for something particular. Hack magazines files to organise your letters and magazines
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Your bills, magazines and letters will all pile up to become a paper landfill very quickly if you don’t organise them properly. Instead of allowing them to overwhelm your room with clutter, hack a couple of IKEA’s KNUFF magazine files and a wooden shelf, and you’ll never have to stress about organising your letters and magazines again.
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Monday, November 6, 2017
6 Brilliant Ways To Organise Your Bedroom That Is Just Too Good To Ignore
I had a friend that tak nak sekolah dah. Like she went to the teacher and said that she wanted to quit from school. And of courselah kan, that teacher asked why.. I do still remembered that she cakap, "my friends likes to gossip-ing (kecik hati I masa ni tau), the students were so fake, cikgu-cikgu kat sekolah ni semuanya fake; dalam lain kat luar lain, and sistem pengurusan especially education system were so not right and bla bla bla..."
So the teacher sighed and replied, "Okay boleh, tapi kena bawak segelas air penuh ni mengelilingi bangunan sekolah ni tanpa tumpahkannya waima setitis pun." My friend agreed. And she did. Then the teacher asked her one question, "when you brought that water keliling sekolah ni, did you hear anything, like gossip-ing?? Or did you see the fake people like you talked before??" And my friend said no. "Do you know why you didn't hear them all?", the teacher asked again. And my friend's answer was still no. And jawapan the teacher for her was so amazing and Subhanallah Allahuakbar Alhamdulillah..
"It was because you were so focus to not tumpahkan air dalam gelas yang you bring tu and you were so focus on the way you walked so that you takkan tersadung or terjatuh and etc."
So that's how life supposed to be, to be exact... Bila kita fokuskan hidup kita ni untuk Allah, untuk Akhirat nanti, untuk Syurga nanti, so:
- Kita takkan ada masa nak tengok; orang ni silap, orang ni salah, orang tu tak betul and all that.
- Kita takkan ada masa nak judge and criticize people around us.
- Kita takkan nak bergossip with our cliques and talk about nothing.
And
Bila mana kita memfokuskan kehidupan kita hanya pada Allah SWT, we will definitely help people and also we will focus to achieve redha Allah SWT.. :)
We should not to be worry tentang apa yang orang cakapkan.. Cebause Because bila orang merendahkan kita, kita takkan jadi sampah. Bila orang sanjung kita, kita pun takkan jadi rembulan. So jangan risau dan jangan fikirkan langsung apa yang orang nak cakap, sebab setiap orang yang nampak dan tengok dan nilai kita, setiap daripada mereka mempunyai pandangan yang amatlah berbeza, bergantung macam mana dorang nak tengok kita, dorang nak judge kita.
Teruskanlah melangkah selama engkau berada in a right track, eventhough people throw shits at your kindness. There is no need explanation about yourself: "aku ni jenis macam ni, aku ni jenis macam tu." No need to explain anything. People who likes you takkan perlukan tu sebab they do like you. People who hates you will not going to believe that. So yeah, what's the point, aite?
Life is not about who is the best, but life is about who wants to do good. And if someone hurts you, do not revenge. Kill 'em with kindness (Selenator fans here!) Balaslah kejahatan ke atasmu dengan dengan kebaikan ke atas mereka.
Do not give up. Make yourself busy with kindness sampai keburukan pun dah malas nak follow kau. And have faith, Allah is with you.
P/S: Note to self, and others. <3
Kindly,
Eyja
Hi guys! This is going to be my first entry since the last entry I posted was about a month ago??? (sorry!!!) Well. For the past... I don't know, two to three weeks ago or even worst, two to three months ago was a very-very not me. Me was not being me. Y'all know what am I saying, right?? Blurrffff...
I've been searching for myself like crazy... I don't know what I want.. I don't know what I need... I don't even know apa yang aku nak mintak kat Tuhan... I lost, dude. I do.
It was so freakin hard weh to get up and move on and do what I need have to do. It's already September 2017 but still, I didn't archieved what I supposed to archieve. Well, yeah. I have done my degree life and felt relived bila settle semua on degree life #roadtoconvo (tapi taknak update kat socmed sebab ada kawan aku yang tak dapat nak merasa U life and felt kesian dengan dorang kalau dorang nampak gambar aku sana sini lama-lama jadi menyampah pulak) (later I post entry bout this stuff)
But still, I have nothing.. I mean I felt like I did nothing. Yet..
#1
I didn't get any offer for a job. And even if I do, I still couldn't go to. Sebab my job opportunities mostly banyak dan cerah kat KL dan Shah Alam, which was, yeah. My mom didn't allowed me to go far from her. So yeah, I packed my stuffs at Shah Alam and I returned.. Home...
You know, eventhough at that time, I felt macam bodoh gile left all of my living life there, but still. I was okay and I was doing fine. (I guess because of mom's blessings?? who knows right?) She claimed that I didn't belong there sebab tiap minggu dan pantang cuti je aku mesti balik. So yeap. It might be one of the reason, kan???
#2
Mom asks me to follow the tradition which is menjahit. Yeap. She even asked me to sign up for a sewing lesson. So yeah, I guess it leads to #1 when she ordered me to come home. You know... To help and collaborate with her. (menjahit is fun! seriously!)
#3
Our photography business were so busy namapus like busy gila I cant even have one day rest!! Nope! Monday till Friday are my sewing lesson class, Saturday and Sunday are when I am at kenduri, and tangkap gambar people. So yeah. No rest day or even a cheat day (bukan cheat day untuk orang diet ke??) But, but, but. It was so much fun. Penat! Tipu kalau tak penat. Tapi ni kan dunia je. Nanti kat Akhirat rehatlah puas-puas. And this #3 will leads to #4 nanti.
#4 - this is the positive point :)
I've gained so many experiences! I explored so many places eventhough the places was near to my house. Seriously weh, you don't have to travel far to collect experiences and explore new things. You just have to stop and look around you. There are so many pengalaman yang you boleh kutip. Takyah nak travel jauh-jauh semata-mata nak ikut orang lain dan setakat nak upload gambar kau travelled kat socmed kau. Serious. Take a look around you.
#5
I am no longer a planner addict. With my very tight schedule buat aku takde masa langsung untuk tulis cantik-cantik planner aku. (so rugi sebab dengan planner sedikit sebanyak life kau akan teratur). So I tried my best untuk carik masa tulis planner aku (pray for me!)
#etc
And there is many more tapi tak nak cakap kat sini, 'cause it's quite personal. SO yeah. At the age of 21 23, I felt like I ruined my life. But it's a lesson, kan? I make mistakes, but it's okay. It is a learning process. So, what have you doing for these couple of weeks? :) Feel free to share it with in the comment down below! <3
Kindly,
Eyja
"I am leaving". said Cbox to me.
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Indeed, I no longer have Cbox widget in my blog.
Felt relieved, but at the same time. I felt lost 'cause I relied so much to it before this. But nevermind. It will heal.
Thank you Blogger Utara familia sebab adviced me to remove my Cbox. Love you guys!
p/s: Pasni comment kat post saya ya kalau nak bagitahu yang korang ada jejak Blog Eyja Dot Com/ Okay! <3
Hari ni aku nak promote kawan aku jap. Sebab dia ni memang superb. Aku kenal dia zaman aku habis Form 5 dulu, masa tu kami sama-sama joined Group Blogger Apekah??? (group ni dah takde dah, dah bubar, masing-masing bawak haluan sendiri) So kami kenai kat situ. Dan alhamdulillah, sampai sekarang aku still berkawan dengan dia: Aimi Syafiqah.
Dulu dialah ajaq aku English masa aku nak ambik MUET dulu. Sebab dulu dia UPSI apentah course dia tapi bahagian English lah. So memang quite close sampai lah sekarang ni. Ada lagi sorang geng Blogger Apekah??? pun aku still kamcing dengan dia; Razanah Anis. Tapi laa ni memasing pakat tukaq nama. Dulu Aimi guna nama dia, laa ni Baemi dah :P Pastu pulak dulu Anis, searang Flavnesz dah. Hahahaha Aku je yang maintain Blog Eyja dari dulu. Hihi..
So berbalik kepada Baemi tadi, dia memang design superb namampos lawa. Pernah design blog aku tapi aku buli nak free je, dan dia pun ikut je. Kahkahkahsorry taiyang. Dulu masa diploma dia ambik kat UPSI, laa ni dia sambung Master eh tak Degree kat ehem-ehem biarlah rahsia dan nanti lepaih grad dia jadi Graphic Designer lah toq! Tu pasailah aku cakap dia hebat sebab memang bidang dia! (dulu tak belajar ni pun jadi blog designer, kad kahwin designer eh designerlah senang cakap. Hihihi.
LAB is a re-brand from PyqaDesign. Sebab rebrand? Sebab dulu sorang-sorang. Tapi sekarang dah ada business partner. Jadi, LAB (Le Art Bae) menyediakan servis design. Boleh design aaaaaaaanything. Hambuih
Untuk sebarang pertanyaan tentang harga, design, sample or anything related; feel free to whatsapp 014-3436432. Nanti kuli LAB nama Aimi akan entertain your pertanyaan dekat whatsapp tu hihi. Jaga-jaga, budak tu sengal sikit XD
Blog:
http://aimisyafiqah.blogspot.my/
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/leartbae/
https://www.instagram.com/aimisyfiqah/
Twitter:
https://twitter.com/AimiSyfqh
Dulu dialah ajaq aku English masa aku nak ambik MUET dulu. Sebab dulu dia UPSI apentah course dia tapi bahagian English lah. So memang quite close sampai lah sekarang ni. Ada lagi sorang geng Blogger Apekah??? pun aku still kamcing dengan dia; Razanah Anis. Tapi laa ni memasing pakat tukaq nama. Dulu Aimi guna nama dia, laa ni Baemi dah :P Pastu pulak dulu Anis, searang Flavnesz dah. Hahahaha Aku je yang maintain Blog Eyja dari dulu. Hihi..
So berbalik kepada Baemi tadi, dia memang design superb namampos lawa. Pernah design blog aku tapi aku buli nak free je, dan dia pun ikut je. Kahkahkah
- Wedding Card
- Greeting Card
- Sticker
- Packaging
- Banner
- Bunting
- Backdrop
- Business Cards
- Sampul Duit Raya
- Bookmark
- Book Cover
- Blog Design
- Header Blog
- Online Ads
- Print Ads
- Flyers
- Brochure
- Poster
- Logo
- Tag
Untuk sebarang pertanyaan tentang harga, design, sample or anything related; feel free to whatsapp 014-3436432. Nanti kuli LAB nama Aimi akan entertain your pertanyaan dekat whatsapp tu hihi. Jaga-jaga, budak tu sengal sikit XD
Blog:
http://aimisyafiqah.blogspot.my/
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/leartbae/
https://www.instagram.com/aimisyfiqah/
Twitter:
https://twitter.com/AimiSyfqh
Have you ever felt bored? Well, at least once a week? Or even better, once a month? Like you do not know what to do. Like having no clue what is your life going to be on that particular day? Mesti pernah, kan? It's a lie kalau tak dak rasa bosan... Hohoho.
Pastu like macam you were already bored, but still couldn't figured out what would make you feeling less bored, kan?? (get the picture?) So here I am, to share to you that there are 50+ things that you can posibbly do when you are bored. You can try to do it when feeling bored :)
- Write a journal
- Shop for shoes
- Try Pinterest DIY
- Decorate your room
- Take a long and relax bath
- Bake a dessert for friends and family
- Upload old vacation photos on Facebook
- Listen to the music
- Analyze your dream
- Rearrange your furniture
- Organize your bookshelves
- Wash your make up brushes
- Get a haircut
- Give yourself a facial
- Call up an old friend
- Update your resume
- Write your own play script
- Find 10 pieces of clothing to give away
- Practise your outdoor photography
- Do a braid
- Volunteer at charity
- Scribble your coloring book
- Go hiking
- Catch up on celebrity news
- Plant a garden
- Make a new friends
- Organize photos on your phone
- People-watch in a park
- Go for a 20 minutes walk
- Go bowling
- Sing at the karaoke place
- Take a new Facebook profile picture
- Review book on Goodreads
- Adopt a pet
- Practise speed reading
- Plan a vacation
- Babysit for cash
- Organize a picnic
- Write a poem
- Sketch a potrait
- Play hide and seek
- Laugh or smile
- Buy yourself something
- Paint your walls
- Learn a new language
- Practise a makeup tutorial
- Pick fruits
- Take yourself out to dinner
- Practise meditation
- Exercise
- Try a new drink at cafe
- Map out your family tree
- Start a srcapbook
- Compliment a few strangers
- Smile whenever you pass by strangers
- Breath in breath out with a smile happy face
- Read Al-Quran
- Make one day as your not-looking-at-phone-day
- Take a road trip
And there are what you can do during your bored time but please and please and please..
Don't sleep or laying on your bed all day.
Don't eat too much even if it makes you happy.
So there are the two things that you cannot do when you are bored.. Come on, get creative and help your body to be healthy. And enjoy your body movement when you are doing something. I hope this tips may help you about what to do and what not to do when you are bored...
Thursday, August 10, 2017
50 Things To Do and Two Things You Shouldn't Do When You're Bored
Hai assalamualaikum everybody! MasyaAllah, it has been soooo long since I didn't update my entries. I am truly apologize for not posting any entries because, I have been so sibuk not tooo sibuk but I couldn't find the right and perfect time to update my blog...
There are lots of draft posts that I have saved a long time ago. But I couldn't published it due to:
- internal hard disk laptop rosak
- internet slow gile namatey sebab dia update apentah for like 2 months!!!
- settle everything down kat U sebab dah habis belajar
- dapat
wahyuakal untuk belajar "FnD" (let it remain secret) kat Giatmara puleks (I got no rest okay!) - buat 3rd job as an assistant for K
- I sucks at managing my time
- tak jadi nak publish post sebab dah tak ingat dalam post tu nak sembang pasal apa
- dan the major reason is have no mood to write down. (like balik, penat, mandi solat makan tidoq tak sdaq pa!)
Yessss...... Finally I felt so relieved dapat luahkan pasaipeeeee tak boleh nak update blog.And one more thing that made me so lega was I made a second blog!!!!!!
Just for my bloglists...
I know, cool, right? :P. I got this tips from my blogger family which is Blogger Utara.. To put bloglists in another blog. SO that tak serabut. And yes... Tak serabut... Whenever I want to stalk people, I will just straight away go to my second blog and scroll my bloglists and then... Walahhhhh.
So guys, feel free to visit my second blog if in case you have no idea who you want to stalk, nak tengok blog orang, searching for new ideas etc.
I hope you may find new blogging friends when you click their names on my second blog and perhaps ideas to post new entry,,,,, get inspire your desire living la vida on how they designed their blog and stuffs..
Because those are all the blogs that Blog Eyja Suka.
Kindly,
Eyja
Eyja
When looking for a change in scenery, and perhaps a new place to anchor your family, your first thought probably wouldn’t be to buy land. Simply put, land is difficult. It’s unmanageable in the wrong hands. Raw land is, in the very least, a challenge, and at the worst, a completely unusable investment and financial black hole.
Yet despite all these considerations, there are still arguments to be made for land as a good investment for people seeking to not just get a home, but build their own. Mostly because when you buy land, it doesn’t have to be raw land. And even as a foreigner, you might not have as much trouble getting land as you would think, according to ExpatriateAdvisory.com.
Houses, condominiums, and townhouses are some of the most common first-time homebuyer decisions. And according to Global Property Guide, they’re a good investment today as the market slows. Not many nowadays have the time or capital to invest in land and develop their own home, and few would buy an apartment building to turn into their own home, with renting perks. When it’s just you and your family, the decision usually lies between a condominium in the city, a house in the suburbs, or a townhouse in another residential district. However, that doesn’t mean you have to restrict yourself to these choices – especially when you have your own vision for what your home should look like.
Financing Land is Much of the Same
If you’ve ever jumped through the hoops to finance a home, then you’ll be pleased to know that financing land is much the same shtick. Contact your bank or lender and discuss land-financing options with them before even deciding what kind of land to look for.
Getting pre-approved for a land loan is exactly as necessary as is getting pre-approved for absolutely any kind of significant loan purchase – it helps you set a concrete and distinct budget, one you can absolutely afford and one by which you can set your expectations.
While buying a house is all about getting an emotional connection to the very walls and floors of the home, and seeing yourself cooking on the granite countertop or enjoying a book by the window, buying land is a much more tactical decision. Sure, you can fall in love with the location and the landscape – but the actual soil and ground itself is a matter of pure logistics. And that’s where an expert’s opinion has to come in.
Know What to Look For
Land is versatile. Land can be swampy, or arid, with acidic soil or neutral ground, heavy foliage or sparse greenery. However, just like residential properties, every single parcel of land near or around a city or town has probably already been classified and purposed as commercial, residential, agricultural or industrial.
You’re looking for residential land. One way to get a good idea of what land is available in the area is through the Internet. As the Internet continues to grow throughout Asia at a rapid rate, especially here in Malaysia, it’s important to keep in mind its potential in helping you find the right deal. An online real estate directory like Property Guru is all you need to find the right piece of land for sale in Malaysia.
However, you definitely shouldn’t jump on an offer based on a dozen pictures and some ownership history. There’s more to land than that. Since you’re primarily looking for a property you can use to build on, you’ll want to know several other things, namely:
- What kind of utilities are present on the land?
The most expensive cost for what it gets you when it comes to buying land is land development. Undeveloped land is difficult to finance – especially for a family – because as the name implies, it requires actual development before it can be worked on.
That includes potentially implementing tile drainages to ensure that insufficient natural soil percolation due to a lack of foliage won’t lead to flooding or erosion during wet seasons, digging trenches and laying piping down for access to the community water tank, or alternatively tapping into an underground reservoir, and not least of all, getting permission from the city to tap into its grid.
When you’re buying land to build on, make sure all the utilities you need are already present, unless you’re ready to tackle implementing them yourself.
- What kind of zoning restrictions apply to the land?
In some cases, a city or region’s local government will have a specific set of zoning restrictions in place for a piece of land, either due to conservation or historical reasons. There might also be a moratorium on the property, which means that while it can be sold, it cannot be built or developed on for a given period of time – decades, in some cases.
Be sure to know what you can and cannot do with the land before you make your purchase. Once you’re sure your newly found deal is what you’re looking for – clean, developed land – you’re on to your next step in the journey to a new home!
Assalamualaikum.. G'day mate! How are you? Hahahahaha I write in Brits accent pulak. Acah-acah je tau!
So roughly, this book had been published in 2016. But cambiasalah, Melayu malas membaca macam aku ni baru ada keinginan nak baca pada tahun 2017. But nevermind, better late than never! :P
It was about somebody's life, I mean, about his journey to further his study and to be an artist. (I believed that you guys have read this before)
But this book is truly amazeball! No, the writing is amazing. Like seriously. I cried over this book! Sumpah demi Allah, aku menangis terox masa baca ni. I started read this book around 6pm this evening, and I finished it dalam pukul 8 lebih camtu. (2 hours reading this book while crying, so tekalah sembab mata aku macam mana woi!)
But it was totally worth it.
The moral values that I got from this book are:
1. Always ask for your parents' blessings. (Redha Allah terletak pada redha ibu bapa)
2. Never bazirkan bakat yang Allah beri.
3. Setiap kesusahan akan disertai dengan kemudahan. (percaya pada Allah)
4. Popular di dunia biar sampai popular di Akhirat.
5. Jangan salah gunakan nikmat yang Allah beri.
6. Jangan malas dalam mencuba dan jangan malas on everything.
7. Learn to be grateful. (bila he said that soooo nikmat bila makan nasi putih yang dicatu dengan telur dan garam sebagai perasa make me..... Ya Allah selama ni aku selalu membazir....)
8. Learn to share. Tak semua benda yang kau ada dalam dunia tu memang sebenarnya hak kau. (I cried when he wrote that he wanted to eat chicken so bad but end up he gave it to a homeless)
9. Put your hope only on Allah. Kerana Dialah satu-satunya, satu-satunya tempat kau bergantung.
10. Find out more by reading this book!
#PelukisJalanan is totally 10/10
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